Ah! Commitment!

Ah! Commitment!

Are you really ready to make the next BIG step and commit yourself to someone because that someone is making you happy NOW? Pardon me if I stress on the NOW but isn’t it always the same for everyone… specially when you are in the courtship period where both men and women are putting on their best clothes, best perfume, best performances-on-a-date in a hope that whoever you are with, you will be liked and somehow get the hand or any other part of the body one could allow? (The “heart” is what I mean but I like what you are thinking!)

And before you say the three-amorous-words that bring people together and who knows what made them go apart, shouldn’t everyone be more cautious enough before letting it slip their tongue? Before you actually make someone believe that you mean what you say. Is it hard to sit back for a little while and ask yourself things that normally scares you?

If you and your partner are fighting over little stuff, getting tired of spending for each other or fighting over jealousy on ex’s.... Would it be too much to ask what if this person gets cancer or loses his arm on an accident or loses his job or loses his sight for an instance, would you still be able to say I LOVE YOU? Isn’t LOVE means encompassing all hardships, pains, misery and a quandary of sorts? Can you conquer all these in the name of LOVE? If you answered YES on all these, go ahead and say it.

At some point, you and your partner will reach a crossroad or that bridge you’ve been dreading about and before you say you will get COMMITTED, ask yourself first if this person you adore or like or lust about is really WORTH ALL THE TROUBLE.

But if you don’t, do what is right to make this world a better place. SHUT YOUR MOUTH!